Hi, (sorry this is LONG).
Decided to join as need to get this off my chest and not sure where else to turn to be honest.
I will keep this as short as possible. Basically, when I went to my booking in visit I ticked the box stating I had a history of mental illness. At the time I had a diagnosis of Bipolar. This has since been changed to Borderline personality disorder. (This is also questionable).
I was immediately referred to ss without my knowledge. During my pregnancy I was treated appallingly. Fast forward a few months to my labour and dd being born. I decided on a home birth which unfortunately ended up in transfer to hospital and emergency c section due to dd getting stuck. Whilst being preped for the c section, a doctor stood over me and told me I was stupid for trying for a home birth and as I was now having a section I will never be able to have another home birth . When in the recovery room the midwife placed a tag on dd, stating she was doing so due to social concerns . I also had to demand to hold dd as she would not pass her to me. This list of things goes on! I am so upset and traumatised by all of this. DD is now 4 months old. I have being discharged from all mental health services and ss came to my home once and then discharged me. I am happily married have a large supportive family a full time career, we own our own home, no criminal record, history of violence, drugs, serious debt etc. So why did this happen! I am now too frightened to even take my daughter to get weighed. (I did take her last week and almost had a panic attack.) or to the doctor . I have also since found out that there was an alert on the hospital computer stating that a referral to ss had being made and the date. I have been told that that is the only info on the system. DD has never being subject to any child protection procedures. I am really confused a baffled as to why I was treated this way. I didn?t realize having a history on mental illness meant you could be treated this way. Surely it cant be right???!
I hope what i have experienced is rare
as i would hate to put other mothers off seeking support.
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seriously upset and angry about all of this!
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gottogetoutmore · 23/08/2010 12:54
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