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Ali246 · 04/08/2019 18:52

Hello everyone, I'm not really sure what I'm
Trying to get out of this, some advice maybe, I just feel like I need to get some other peoples opinions on this, so a few weeks ago my partner and I had unprotected sex, after a few weeks I said to my partner I'm pregnant, because I felt pretty sure I was having 2 before and knowing the experience pretty well, however the day after I came on my period 2 days early, I've got myself at it worrying that I've had a miscarriage, I took a test and it came up negative which isn't surprising because even if I was pregnant it would've been to early to tell by test, it's really
Upsetting me and I just don't know what to do with myself, I'll never get proper answers, it could've just been an early period, but the thought of it being a miscarriage breaks my heart it just won't leave my mind, I'm trying to ignore it and be rational but it's just not working 😰Sad

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Fontofnoknowledge · 04/08/2019 18:59

Do you want to be pregnant? Does your partner want to have a baby.? Are you in the right place - relationship- wise , financially .. ?

Let's say it was a miscarriage. Horrible for sure but incredibly common and most are so early they are never recognised as such. You have had two children so IF it was a miscarriage, unlikely to be a problem that meant a viable pregnancy that you were unable to carry...
more like to be an unviable pregnancy.. . However ...
The reality is that you were probably never pregnant.

Why so upset . This seems an extreme reaction. What was your partners response to news you were pregnant ?

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Fontofnoknowledge · 04/08/2019 19:01

... also forgot to say.. if you WERE pregnant .. HCG levels probably wouldn't drop so significantly to give a negative after 24 hours..

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