I have a long distance boyfriend who I only see every 4-6 months, generally for a couple of weeks at a time.
We haven't slept together (well not penetrative sex - we've done most things up to that point) because we'd be be happier doubling up on contraception.
But with that sort of gap I don't really want to use hormonal contraception or the copper coil, because most of the time I won't need it and my periods don't cause any bother so I'd prefer not to risk messing about with them. I also have migraines, so hormonal stuff is a bit more complicated.
Does anybody use a diaphragm or cap? I know the effectiveness rates are a bit lower than hormonal, but we would be using it with condoms too. I like the idea that it can just be used when he's here, and then put away again.
If you do, how do you find it and has it worked for you? Can you DP feel it? Has it ever dislodged?
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Long distance boyfriend - Diaphragm/Cervical Cap?
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StringAndSealingWax · 14/10/2017 21:48
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