Hi, looking for advice, pros and cons and experiences please.
DP and I have 4 kids between us (none together, but don't want more). I've been on pill pre-kids and in between, and mirena for last 10 years. Just had it removed - various reasons but several unexplained ailments and end of it's useful life anyway.
DP hates condoms. I'm not keen as it breaks the mood somewhat but we always use them. I want to give my body a break from hormonal contraception just to see if my unexplained ailments sort themselves out (depression, night sweats, insomnia).
DP is totally against vasectomy. Is worried it will be painful and will reduce his libido. I know it's a quick job with usually great results.
How can I at least get him to consider it? Am I being totally selfish in asking him to do this? How do blokes feel after the snip?
Thanks in advance
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Tell me your experience of vasectomy please
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StrongerThanIThought76 · 30/12/2016 13:15
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