Dh went to the GP to talk about getting the snip today however, after talking it over with her and discussing the prostate cancer risks he is against it which is fine by me.
But what do we do now?
I have had issues in the past with the pill. Rational brain knows that different pills suit different people and that all hormonal contraceptives are not the same but I worry a lot about it. I went pretty loopy on the pill but it was so gradual and I hate the thought of getting the implant or mirena or something and maybe being ok for 6 months, then maybe going downhill but not putting 2 and 2 together so then maybe spending a year or so getting mroe and more crazy unitl I finally realise. It makes me stressed just thinking about it. Plus I'm about to start a demanding degree so there will be a lot of added stress to mask any symptoms of things being not right with hormonal contraceptives.
So pill, implant, mirena are pretty much out.
Copper coil. Good but not quite as effective as something like the mirena so I would want to use condoms too. Dh and I are a VERY fertile combination. Using condoms kind of defeats the point of getting something long term tbh.
So if all that is ruled out then am I just left with sterilisation?
Which is pretty daunting.
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Anyone fancy helping dh and I to make contraception decision?
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Indith · 21/01/2013 19:50
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