I'm at my wits end. My dd started violin in yr 1. Practices, does what she is supposed to and we all enjoy it. 2 yrs later all is still good. Ds was desperate to start in yr 1 too. So I agreed. He is far more musical then her but less mature, academically able, reading well and teacher happy to give it a go. He enjoys his lessons and does what he is told in them. Practice is a nightmare though. He willingly gets it out every day but does what he wants when he wants. Sometimes about 4 notes them he's done, Sometimes holding it however he fancies. I tell him what it says on the sheet he does something different. He is being investigated for high functioning ASD and alot of his issues are around anxiety and needing to be in control. He has just had a huge meltdown because I put his violin away after he was waving it around. When he is in the zone he has a really good ear knows when he is out of tune and corrects it and actually makes a decent sound but I am so very tired I can't think straight over the practice thing now . This is on a background of exhausting draining meltdowns over minute trivia and very little sleep so apologies if it sounds over dramatic. I know he is very young and if I'd known about the ASD thing I would have put off starting but he was SO keen. I would happily let him stop and start again later if he wanted to but he says he wants to carry on but I don't know if that's now anxiety of change ! I need external opinions here. I'm thinking he's very young, he's sort of enjoying it just let him play around for now and not really worry about what what hes actually doing ?
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Didiplanthis · 18/11/2017 20:48
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