DD1 attends a drama club for 2 hours on a Saturday. She's been going now for 2.5 years and seems to enjoy it. We joined up to improve her confidence and it seems to have worked, though not massively. She's almost 9.
The drama club puts on three shows a year. They also periodically do exams. It was never as 'full on' as this in the past, but competition has sprung up locally and also the owner is devoting more time to the club in the last year. I sort of feel as though it's not what I originally signed up for. The owner is young and enthusiastic. She has no children so I do feel that she makes demands of parents that are unreasonable at times (for example, I had to produce three outfits for one show…and none of them was easy - I also work and have a 4 year old).
The main problem I have is the summer show. They put on four performances over two days (a weekend). They also spend the whole of the previous weekend rehearsing. The theatre is not local and there is a significant amount of running to/from shows. It basically blocks out the last weekend in June/First weekend in July for the whole family - nobody can go anywhere or do anything for two consecutive weekends, when actually the weather is often very good and we'd like to get out/go camping. We have a younger daughter who basically spends two consecutive weekends being dragged about to shows/rehearsals. Even DD1 complains about being shut up inside for two weekends running.
Attendance is required at the Saturday morning class every week in the run up to the show. Absences are very much frowned upon. This makes it very hard to get away for a weekend in the summer as a family until after the schools break up. My husband often works weekends so it's even harder to schedule a family trip. I am really beginning to resent this drama class and have tried to persuade DD to drop it but she wants to keep going.
Is this normal for drama clubs? I'm not talking about professional actors, I'm talking about a club in our community centre, though admittedly some children have gone on to minor roles in adverts/TV -neither DD nor I have any ambition in this direction. I just want her to have fun.
Wrong board - but AIBU?? Would anyone else find this a bit much?
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Sixtiesqueen · 27/02/2014 23:01
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