My feed
Premium

Please
or
to access all these features

Brexit

Just how exactly are we going to 'bring the country back together'?

398 replies

KennDodd · 05/07/2019 21:44

Both candidates for PM have claimed they can do this. I heard a Tory party member interviewed on the radio saying that the best way to do this was a 'no deal/WTO/crash out because we'll all be in it together and it'll be like the war'.
I don't know how these wounds are going to heal.

OP posts:
Report
bellinisurge · 05/07/2019 21:48

Agree a border in the sea. That's the "alternative arrangement " to the WA.

Report
Bearbehind · 05/07/2019 21:57

A border in the sea won’t bring the country back together - quite the opposite.

Scotland will be off next and the United Kingdom will be far from United anymore.

It’s going to take several generations to repair this damage. More still if no deal happens.

Report
Jsmith99 · 05/07/2019 22:01

Leave won because the over 65s, who do not have a stake in the country’s future, voted overwhelmingly for Brexit, so revoke A50 and just wait for natural demographic change to entrench a solid majority for Remain.

Problem solved Wink

Report
Ohdearthefootball · 05/07/2019 22:02

We aren't going to is the blunt answer to the question sadly

Report
Dontlickthetrolley · 05/07/2019 22:04

Don't think it'll happen in my life

Report
ThereWillBeAdequateFood · 05/07/2019 22:07

I don’t think anyone can bring the country back together.

Brexit seems to have split the country into authoritarians and liberals. In the past there were plenty of authoritarian leaning people and liberal leaning people in both the Tory and Labour parties.

I don’t see a way out of this. And there’s absolutely no hope of that damned lier Johnson or Hunt bringing people together.

Report
ATrampsVest · 05/07/2019 22:11

Soft Brexit with CU + SM. Achieves the referendum result whilst inflicting the least amount of damage.

Report
kalinkafoxtrot45 · 05/07/2019 22:13

Can’t be done. That’s the sad truth.

Report
Songsofexperience · 05/07/2019 22:15

no deal/WTO/crash out because we'll all be in it together and it'll be like the war

It takes a particular kind of idiot to say something like that! The war was not self inflicted!
One half of the country will keep on blaming the other. No deal will only make this thing more and more toxic.

Report
Songsofexperience · 05/07/2019 22:18

This reply has been deleted

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Lonelycrab · 05/07/2019 22:19

Atrampsvest that won’t alter Freedom of movement though.

I think as long as there is a vacuum in the centre, politically, we are fucked. Someone likeable, and intelligent whose not mental would be a start. Shouldn’t be too much to ask in this day and age, shirley?Hmm

Report
Bearbehind · 05/07/2019 22:19

In theory a people’s vote should be the least destructive way out of this mess but, whilst I think Remain would win because there’s enough people who’ve seen the damage this is going to cause, there’s still way too many headbangers to make this go away.

Report
ragged · 05/07/2019 22:37

"Don't think it'll happen in my life"

^ That's what I go with. My skin is starting to crawl when I hear BJ speak.

Report
Peregrina · 05/07/2019 22:43

no deal/WTO/crash out because we'll all be in it together and it'll be like the war

Which evil dictatorship are we fighting, or are you talking of Concentration camps for the 'undesirables'?

Think of the bitterness that there still is between the opposing sides after the Spanish Civil War. Beginning to dissipate now perhaps as the generations which fought each other are dying out.

I think it's too soon for a 'peoples vote' to be effective - there would need to be a very clear majority, which there isn't yet. We would also have to have very strict rules about the claims which could be made, so no more Boris Johnson promises on a bus, which turned out not to be promises.

Report
KennDodd · 05/07/2019 22:47

I also think the analogy about the war is particularly stupid. During the war we were all on the same side.

I suppose one ray of hope could be if Brexit did end up delivering the sunlit upland and fabulous riches for us all as promised. I think we can just about wright that off though and even if it did we would still lose our rights as EU citizens and millions of people are going to be angry about that.

OP posts:
Report
KennDodd · 05/07/2019 22:51

I'm 50, before 2016 I don't think I had ever had a single conversation with anybody about the EU. I've heard it reported that before the referendum 4% of people listed the EU as an important issue.

OP posts:
Report
Oakenbeach · 05/07/2019 22:52

It takes a particular kind of idiot to say something like that! The war was not self inflicted!

Indeed, it is idiotically stupid.... Why not go the whole hog and send up planes to bomb us whilst we scuttle into bomb shelters!

Report
tobee · 05/07/2019 22:55

A quick look at wiki tells me that 67,200 civilians died in the UK during World War II. Is this something we should aspire to then?

Report
Peregrina · 05/07/2019 23:04

Not only that, it wasn't all hunky dory during the war - there were black marketeers making a nice profit. My grandmother used to talk of a butcher who was known as a Little Hitler. After the war, she never crossed the door of his shop again.

Then losing everything when you were bombed out, losing loved ones?

KennDodd - I don't think I have heard any conversations about the EU either, and I am 68. Now suddenly the trueBeLeavers are experts about the WTO and the ECJ which they are against, and in 90% of cases give the impression of knowing F All about either.

Report
Jsmith99 · 05/07/2019 23:09

I'm 50, before 2016 I don't think I had ever had a single conversation with anybody about the EU. I've heard it reported that before the referendum 4% of people listed the EU as an important issue.

Exactly.

The whole point and purpose of the referendum was to settle an internal argument within the Conservative party and to placate a handful of powerful media barons.

Report
KennDodd · 05/07/2019 23:12

And the person interviewed who made the war comment has a vote on who should be PM.

OP posts:
Report
tobee · 05/07/2019 23:25

My mil, who was born in 1938, was astonished and disbelieving when I talked about the fact plenty of serial killers, black marketeers, looters, thieves etc thrived during the war. She truly believed the propaganda that everyone pulled together in the war. There was no crime.

Being seven when the war ended, and those who were young just after the war would have had listened to lots of talk about the blitz spirit while they were growing up. I suppose it was because people were suffering from rationing and housing shortages etc for so long afterwards, to remind people it was all for a good reason.

Report

Don’t want to miss threads like this?

Weekly

Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!

Log in to update your newsletter preferences.

You've subscribed!

LifeContinues · 06/07/2019 03:56

Leave won because the over 65s, who do not have a stake in the country’s future, voted overwhelmingly for Brexit, so revoke A50 and just wait for natural demographic change to entrench a solid majority for Remain

UK population is aging, not getting younger. Look it up on the ONS (Office National Statistics)

Report
LifeContinues · 06/07/2019 03:59

In theory a people’s vote That was the 23 June 2016 referendum

Brexit Party is second in the polls

Report
OralBElectricToothbrush · 06/07/2019 04:04

My mil, who was born in 1938, was astonished and disbelieving when I talked about the fact plenty of serial killers, black marketeers, looters, thieves etc thrived during the war. She truly believed the propaganda that everyone pulled together in the war. There was no crime.

It was like a giant party for organised crime. Rape and murder were common, too.

Report
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.