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Save the date cards

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Adviceappreciated88 Mon 29-May-17 22:57:14

Should you send save the date cards out to guests who are going to be invited to the evening only part of the wedding day? Thanks!

mrsnoon Mon 29-May-17 22:59:14

I wouldn't, and tbh I'd be a bit pissed off if I saved the date (possibly booking time off work etc) to then only get an evening invite.

llangennith Mon 29-May-17 23:06:42

Me too.

Polly2345 Mon 29-May-17 23:09:34


meditrina Mon 29-May-17 23:12:56


STDs only for the subgroup of those invited to the whole thing, whose absence you'd really notice and regret.

Arguably, that makes the extra stationery redundant, as they are often the people you'd be talking to, emailing or writing to anyhow and you can just mention it then.

BackforGood Mon 29-May-17 23:22:17


PurpleDaisies Mon 29-May-17 23:23:48

Another vote for no.

TheDowagerCuntess Tue 30-May-17 01:50:05

You could send a 'save the evening' card out'.

And then watch them all then rush to prioritise an event where they're relegated to B list, over other events they're whole-heartedly wanted at. wink

WhatToDoAboutThis2017 Tue 30-May-17 01:54:11

Nope. Quite rude.

Though I think STD cards are redundant anyway.

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