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How to respond when you haven't been invited and other friends assume you have

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Rach168 Sat 13-Aug-16 22:33:01

Just that really e.g. If the friends you are with all start chatting about going out to celebrate a mutual friends' birthday or other event and ask you whether you're coming (in a way that clearly assumes you know about it and were invited) - Do you tell them that it's the first you've heard about it/you aren't invited or do you just say 'no, I'm not coming'?

Coconutty Sat 13-Aug-16 22:36:51

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

joangray38 Sat 13-Aug-16 22:36:58

I used to be tactful and say I am not coming, but this gives a get out excuse to the inviter if they ask where you are. Now I just say I wasn't invited and leave it at that.

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