How would you think and feel if a friend invited you round for an evening for a dvd , some wine ,and to meet her sister in law - then uninvited you by text later that same day ,because thinking about it, her sister in law may feel strange with you being there. I would be grateful to hear from you !
Yup that's a possibility , but.. My instincts still tell me I have up till now been a blind to the fact that she is maybe not as much of a friend as I thought . Even if I am wrong it's still made me feel pretty shitty getting that text message ( without even the hint of a ' sorry' or ' let's rearrange', ) and I don't think I want to be around people that make me feel like that .
I think it's odd spesh as she didn't apologise. But I think it must have been something that dp or sil said that put her off. After all she didn't see any problem before. I can see why you're pissed off but I wouldn't go as far as to re-evaluate your whole friendship. It something that someone else has said that has put her off. She might be quite disappointed to gave to spend the eve with only her sil.