My dd who is 15 told me yesterday that she lost her virginity a few weeks ago. She said she was worried about my reaction, which is why she didn’t tell me right away.
I am totally devastated. To be honest I have no idea how to proceed. I’ve got her booked into the doctors in a couple of days as she said she ‘mainly’ used contraception the few times they’ve done it, but that they had used the ‘pull out’ method a couple of times too.
I suffer with poor mental health and I just don’t know what to do I feel like a total failure. We’d discussed sex and relationships etc in detail, and I didn’t see this coming at all. I can’t consent to them doing in my house but nor do I want to lay the law down and alienate my daughter. I’m sick with worry, any advice or similar experiences would be great. Tia x
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EmLou66 · 16/12/2019 18:51
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