Last week met up with a friend to ask her her opinion on a project I'm thinking about starting which could affect her job.
I have known about it for a while but only confirmed recently. I shared the details of the project and could have altered the date on it to more recently but chose to keep the older date.
She was very upset I hadn't spoken to her about it earlier because of the impact on her role. I could choose not to do the project but it would make me a lot of money. If she worked with me on it (the reason I met up with her) she would have to leave her current role which she enjoys.
She doesn't want me to do the project but the thing she's most angry about is that I didn't talk to her about it sooner.
I went as far as changing the date on the project documentation to more recently but chose not to lie and the one I shared with her was the correct older date. I've now pissed her off in a way I could have avoided if I'd lied. WWYHD?
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I didn't lie but should I have done?
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MyRankIsSuperintendent · 01/05/2019 00:04
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