Is it snooping

[Scousecow44]

While cleaning under my OH bed I came across a box I looked in it and now he is very angry was I wrong ? I did tell him I had

[TopBitchoftheWitches]

What was in the box?

[ColossalKalamari]

It depends whether you were looking for evidence of something under the bed or you accidentally stumbled on it. It's all about the intent imo

[Scousecow44]

It was old cards from ex and photos of ex along with old stuff

[Scousecow44]

I was cleaning under the bed and wasnt looking for anything I admit I dont like the old photos of an ex from years ago

[TopBitchoftheWitches]

Do you not share a bed?

[Fluffypinkpyjamas]

Why did look I totally would look too How long have you been together/living together?

[Scousecow44]

We are not living together yet and been together 19 months

[EverythingEverywhere1234]

I found a load of old cards from my DP's ex the same way. I wasn't snooping, they were just there and he'd forgotten.
As an aside, why on earth are you cleaning under his bed if you don't live together?

[NerrSnerr]

Why were you cleaning under the bed when you don't live there? It does sound like snooping, I wouldn't go opening boxes when it's not your house.

[MyBrilliantDisguise]

I'd be really pissed off if I were him. That's his home!

[Celticlassie]

Why the hell are you cleaning his house if you don't live there?

[Ttbb]

If you lived together it would be perfectly normal thing to do-maybe the box was yours and you had forgotten about it. But seeing as you are not living together-what are you doing cleaning at all?