This is really for my son, who has given me permission to ask.
DS2 has an exgirlfriend who was fun, sparky and ambitious, and who we all liked very much. Sadly, since they split a couple of years ago (she left him for another man) she has made a series of bad decisions which resulted in her presenting as emergency homeless with our local council. The council put her into the local hostel and provided 28 days of storage for her larger pieces of furniture, and, as she asked nicely and we did all still like her, we agreed to store her clothes, boxes of kitchen stuff and so on, in our spare room. She was adamant that it was only for a few weeks.
Of course, months later, we still have most of her clutter and relations with her have deteriorated. She has moved house at least once and possibly twice, and we have no idea where she currently lives. She's changed her mobile number so the only way to contact her is via FB.
One of the items we are storing is a massive TV, which she bought on credit from Brighthouse or similar, RRP about £1500 but will end up paying more like £3000. She's not been paying for it, but after debt collectors (of some sort, not clear on details) turned up on her mother's doorstep, her mum has been making repayments. Her mum has also been threatened by less-legit debt collectors, and has paid her drug debts too.
So today she has asked ds when she can come collect the rest of her stuff, "if we still have it". Ds has been struggling for a while with what to do with the TV - return it to the ex, or take it to her mum, who is paying for it? Her mum can then decide whether to give it back to her dd (they're not talking atm), keep it, or sell it to recuperate some of the cash she's laid out.
What should he do?
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HirplesWithHaggis · 02/03/2017 18:53
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