I won't have to worry about this for a few years yet as my DD is only 6 months old, but a conversation with my SIL this morning got me thinking.
Basically her and her OH are pretty hard up for cash and she asked to borrow money from me to get her OH a birthday present present (which I refused, if they both know they have no money then why feel the need to waste money on birthday present for each other) and also to get a present for a child in her sons class whose birthday he'd been invited to. So I gave her some for that.
This got me thinking. What happens if your child gets invited to umpteen birthdays by school children throughout the year and you have to fork out on presents for them all. Then your own child has a birthday in the school holidays. Are classmates less likely to come? Therefore they don't get anything back... I know you don't give presents to receive but this is the general idea I get from the whole kids parties thing.
Now I'm a little bit anti social. I don't know how these party invites work, but I assume that child passes invites out at school? I have no idea if my DD will want a birthday party when she's at school, but if she does (If shes not as unsociable as me) it's going to be very unlikely that I have contact details for all of those she would invite. How do you then go about arranging something in the summer? Just do it well before hand?
But also, how would you deal with this if you actually couldn't afford to buy a class full of kids birthday presents each year. Not everyone can afford it, but I can see it turning into a rather awkward social situation if you didn't.
As I said, I've got some time to go til this happens (although it'll probably be round quicker than I realise!) but I can't stop thinking about this now!
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Karls88 · 04/03/2016 16:08
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