namechanger here. This is doing my head in, and strikes as just not right.
any opinions will be really welcome - have tried to be as objective as possible...
4 siblings. 1 elderly mother.
Sibling1: Single, self employed, grown-up children, lives close to M. Organises employment of carers for elderly mother's (with dementia) during last few years of M's life. The care is paid for by M's capital. Quite alot of admin and hands-on stuff done by Sib1. Sib1 also encouraged by other sibs to pay himself out of M's funds for time spent on these affairs.
Sibliing 2: Single, no children, private income plus very hands-on full-time job. Lives close to M. Provides much support to Sib1 & M, occasionally in person.
Sibling 3: Married, very young children, full time, high level, well-paid job. Does not live close to M but does as much as possible, when needed.
Sibling 4: Married, dependent children, full time job. Lives 3 hour flight away from M. Contributes to M's care through research/advice/phone and email contact. Visits as often as possible.
M has now died. There is a small inheritance £100k. The will leaves inheritance equally to all 4.
One sibling has suggested that 75% of inheritance be passed to sib1 in recognition of sib1's work and possible loss of "potential" income during the 4 or so years of M's illness.
With the other 3 sharing the remaining 25%.
My gut feeling is wrong wrong wrong but I can't work out why I think so.
Help!!
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Ethical dilemmas
you looked after someone during their final years, are you then entitled to more of their inheritance?
70 replies
jollyaround · 13/07/2012 16:35
OP posts:
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.