As some of you may know, DH and I both work for the United Nations and are currently based in Venice. A place which we both absolutely love, my job is the best I've ever had and DS is in a fantastic school and really really happy here. A few months ago DH was told, verbally and in writing, that from mid August he would have no job as the job description was changing and it would require a specialist ie. not him. Of course we were/are frantic but this is normal behaviour for the UN and it is something we have been living under the threat of for the last 10 years. Now comes the tough decision, currently we have 4 options
a) DH has been offered a job in the British Embassy in Brazil (he is Brazilian) It's good but not fantastic and he suspects that after a couple of years he will be bored. We would have to pack up and leave Venice within the next 3 months. All our possesions would be subject to import tax, DS would not be able to start school until next Jan, I would obviously have to quit my job.
b) DH has always wanted to do a PhD. There is an international university here in Venice which offers a very good PhD in the field in which DH is interested. It would start in September but of course, even with a grant, there would be very little income for us. We could just about survive on my wages but it would meant that we could stay in Venice
c) A replacement for DH has not been found and he has been asked to stay on in his current job but you can imagine how his moral is. Again though, we could stay here - but don't know for how long
d) There is a very good chance of a job in London which means us living in the UK, me for the first time in 15 years DS for the first time ever. Again it means a new school for DS probably to start mid-term (Novemberish) and no job for me. I admit to being rather apprehensive about returning to the UK after all this time and TBH I don't really want to.
We really don't know what option to take, any advise you can offer? The only thing we do know is that we will stay together and I will follow DH whatever the final decision is. We are being very honest with each other about what we want and that is the only thing that we are clear about. Other than that we are totally confused, please help
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Please help us make the right decision - sorry, rather long
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albert · 07/06/2005 09:45
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