I'm feeling rather frustrated atm and I'm really sorry, this is going to be a long post.
I applied for two jobs around 3 months ago - Job A is perfect. It's the same sector that I work in now, more money than what I am earning now plus the working hours are much better for my family.
Job B is in the same sector I work in now, it's hours are very similar to Job A but it's less money than what I am currently earning, but I am off (on pay) for up to two weeks during Christmas/New Year.
So I heard nothing from both, then suddenly Job B calls me in for an interview, I am offered the position there and then and accept. I was told to provide all my documents (I've never had a passport so brought my Driver's License, Long Birth Certificate and Marriage Certificate) the lady photocopied everything and told me to call when my enhanced DBS came through the post.
It came through the post, I called to inform them and they said they would contact me once they have found the lady who was dealing with me. Two days went by and I get a phone call asking me to meet up with a different lady and bring everything to her as my clearance required all the original documents, not photocopies. I gave them everything. Driver's licence, long birth certificate, marriage certificate, national insurance number card, a p60 as proof of address and my DBS. When handing all the documentation over, I was told to call the woman who had interviewed me in relation to a start date. This was because I queried about when I should hand in my notice for my current job (I didn't want anything to overrun)
I call the lady who then asked me to call back in two weeks. I then received my documents back two days later. I call the lady back two weeks later who told me that they will just call with a start date, and if they 'have to do without me for a week after the start date due to my notice running over then that will just have to be the case'
Another three weeks go by and I get a phone call asking for my original birth certificate, I explain that I supplied it to them. Twice. The first time they photocopied it, then the second time I physically handed it over and got it back in the mail.
The lady on the phone then explained that they couldn't accept the long version I provided as it was issued in 2005 and not in 1989 (my birth year). The undertone was that I had filled out the long version myself (forget the fact that was a Superintendant Registrar's signature on there but hey). So I explain that I can provide the one my parents were given but it was the short version, I explained the reason behind me purchasing the long version (it was due to my first ever employer refusing my short one and requesting my long one) so have always handed over my long version, which was the one I had provided them with. The lady accepted this and the phone call ended.
Again I hear nothing, another two weeks go by and I now get a phone call this morning from the same woman explaining that they are now refusing to accept my long birthday certificate because it is dated from 2005.
For my security clearance for the site to go through, they now want me to apply for my first adult passport as proof that I am a British Citizen. Plus on top of that, I have to send my marriage certificate to them again for the third time.
I explained that I had never had a passport so it may take some time, the woman told me I should send them my marriage certificate either today or tomorrow because of Bank Holiday Monday. She also suggested that I apply for a passport online as it will be quicker AND that they want me to apply for it today.
DH is going spare because it's the end of the month (we don't get paid until the 28th), we have just forked out for our LO's school uniform and can't really afford to lay out the best part of £85 for a passport right now, as our money is all divided up to last us until we get paid.
My DH has told me to tell Job B to do one now because Job A contacted me this morning via email requesting an interview for next Thursday. The thing is, I have no guarantee with Job A even though I definitely would walk away from Job B if I did get Job A. Thoughts, please?
I currently finish work at 10pm on a Sunday. My LO has to be at school for 8.45am the following day. After picking her up from my in-laws, I am walking through the door at 11.45pm. It's just too late to have her out so I'm literally clinging to Job B because it's the only certainty I have in giving my LO a routine.
I'm very frustrated because everyone is at me now telling me to fob Job B off, and just hope for the best during my interview at Job A. I'm worried if I do that, and I don't get Job A then I'll be stuck with no prospect of being able to get my child to bed at a reasonable time ready for school. I can't keep her up till practically midnight then expect her to be bright-eyed and bushy-tailed for 8.45am the next day.
I could wait it out and see what other job prospects there are, but to be perfectly honest, in my sector it's either crap hours and good pay or crap pay and good hours.
I'm tempted to pay for my passport on my credit card and not tell DH tbh...he works whatever hours he likes because I'm always the one having to work my hours around him and my LO. He works night shift so he won't be the one having to struggle to get our DD to school on time, it will be me.
Normally I would tell this job where to go because I do feel it's becoming a bloody joke but I feel they have me with a leg up right now.
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juneflowers · 22/08/2019 18:47
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