For the last year I suffered some pretty bad work place bullying from someone who used to be my line manager (included her blocking a promotion but also things like her taking the piss out of me to a large group of people in the office which I actually saw).
I do suffer with anxiety in general but it was well managed. I was head hunted, earlier in the year, but the job and pay didnt really suit. I stayed where I was on the promise of promotion, which was blocked (unofficially) by this manager as they are very senior. I found this out later but had already turned the offee for the new job down.
12 weeks ago I was rushed into hospital and initially it was suspected I had, had a stroke. Severe pain in my head, couldn't move. Anyway after staying in for a few days, scans, lumber puncture etc. It was decided it was actually extreme stress, depression and anxiety. My anxiety meds were changed. I had loads of painkillers and havent been to work since. I was so low at times I wanted to end it all felt like a failure. Felt I was failing my kids etc.
Anyway, while I have been off the company that head hunted me came back to me. They offered me a job that is almost twice as much as I am on, currently, adjusted the hours to suit me, comes with car. And It's basically my dream job.
I am going to current work today to hand my notice in. It's also a welfare meeting too
I just dont know what to say. My new manager has been great at supporting me, and organised counselling, but I just cant face going back to work for that company and cant turn down this opportunity.
I feel the new manager will feel I have thrown his help in his face or they will think I have been lying about my illness to job hunt. I definitely didnt job hunt. This company have offered me 3 roles in 18 months to get me to work for them. This is the only one that was worth taking.
I am feeling really anxious this morning and not sure how to start the converstation.
Any advice?
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Ilikethisone · 22/08/2019 07:47
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