I'm lucky enough to have a job I love and excel at. It's quite niche and I'm told there were lots of applicants for it. I've done well in the job and had excellent performance reviews so far.
A younger colleague who is on the grade directly below me in a slightly different bit of the business is keen to get into the same line of work but blatently asks me when I'm leaving! I've only been in the role just under a year, recently passed probation with flying colours and have no immediate plans to do so.
She asked if she could do a fortnight in our area to get experience. Both our managers agreed to this on the understanding that I would swap position with her temporarily.
Although colleague's role is slightly less senior and I don't really want a career in that area I agreed to this. I was keen to get a better understanding of her area as it is related to my work and it is a very challenging and interesting role - especially for someone with no direct experience in that area.
However while my colleague has been given a stretch task to do in her placement I have only been given basic admin style jobs. Colleague's job is v quiet at present.
I've asked to do more and help out in other areas but told nothing is required. Her manager, who is to be fair v busy, hasn't spoken to me during my time there.
Other people in the office are now asking if I've been demoted or lost my job as they've seen me doing these basic tasks!
I feel upset and have been quite worried by this as I've worked hard for my job, am very good at it. In fact I recently won an award.
However I am a little quiet and not the best at self promotion. I suffer from imposter syndrome at the best of times and this is really feeding into those feelings.
Although I work full-time I have young dc and while I often do long hours there are times when I inevitably have to WFH or leave early to do pick ups
Meanwhile colleague is asking to do another placement in my area.
I just feel a little as though my job is being snatched away from under my nose.
Colleague is good but no better than me. I'm of course looking for a stretch placement of my own in an area I'm really interested in.
But how do I deal with this situation and can my job be given away if my boss decides he just prefers her?
I've been feeling really very down about it and it doesn't feel quite right but I can't quite my finger on why. I don't want to appear needy or insecure.
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runningpram · 18/07/2019 21:52
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