Hello, this is my first time posting but I could really use some advice as I have never had a sick note for anything other than being physically ill.
I have been seriously run down and stressed with work recently. I work at a private nursery. However, I have had a few days off here and there for various reasons which is where my stress has started, 1 day when i started in March for a viral illness which happens so easily when you start at a new nursery you get ill straight away.
I then moved to another location and got sick again, i had a cough for weeks and was not getting any better I was getting worse, so i got a sick note for over a week from my GP.
Then the week I came back, my grandmother passed away. I took a week and 2 days off to go back home and be with my family. This was in may and I had not been sick since or had any other time off, I was stressing enough being off for my nan aswell as being off ill, thinking I would have been in "trouble".
Then around 2 weeks ago I came down with the Flu on the Wednesday, still went to work on Thursday when i really shouldn't have but phoned in sick on the Friday and the following Monday.
Our protocol for phoning in sick is to phone the manager, then the nursery owner. I understand she wants to cut down on phoning in sick for the sake of it, but it makes you feel like you aren't trusted as a staff member. When i phoned, her reply was "Haven't you been off loads lately" with the last time being off was a month and a half before for my nan's funeral. I was absolutely fuming that someone could be so cold, and it's not the first instance that she has give this attitude to someone it's happened multiple times.
When i came back there was a letter going around saying "people should not phone in sick when they are not sick, if they do from now on this will be dealt with accordingly and straight for disciplinary" so she obviously did not believe I was even ill. I have been stressing looking for another job, even got an interview for something else but couldn't attend as i got declined the time away from work.
The work load asked is unreal and I am constantly anxious about going in to work that i just cannot go in tomorrow, I had a weeks holiday last week that i had to take I haven't slept or eating the past few days even thinking about going back and my anxiety has gotten 10x worse than what it already was.
Can I ask my GP for a sick note for work related stress? can he say no to giving me one? What would I even say to work tomorrow over the phone?
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Can I ask my doctor for a sick note for work related stress?
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Chels182 · 14/07/2019 23:37
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