Sorry to ramble but please can someone help me I'm really worried and have no one to talk to IRL about this.
I hate my job so much but it's very hands on and exhausting so I have no time to really sit down and plan what I should do next.
All I can come up with is to resign, however, I have no savings and I have bills to pay (who doesn't, right?). The thing is, I find the idea of spending another day there INTOLERABLE.
I've had shittingly crappy jobs before this and I used to focus on meditation/mantras/The Big Picture to help me get through each day. However, I cannot drift away with my thoughts in this job (I have to focus all my energy on the client) so it seems extra suffocating and horrible because my only coping mechanism is useless here. I want to quit, I'm so unhappy. I'm not suicidal but I feel so trapped it's a horrible feeling.
The company is well regarded, the pay is good (i was unemployed for a year before this), I am very good at the job (I should point that out, lol) but it's mind numbingly dull and the clients treat me like I'm a robot not a person (service industry). It's depressing after a while.
I have no time for exercise because the commute is so long and the job is very physical. I'm so stressed and fatigued. I've piled on so much weight because I'm not motivated to take care of myself. I feel like I exist for my job. I show more care towards the clients than I do to myself or my family.
Everyone in my personal life is really proud of me and have high expectations but I'm so miserable and I don't have the heart to tell them the job isn't working out. Ideally I would get a similar job closer to home but part-time. I didn't have a lot of luck getting this job and the thought of lengthy unemployment gives me a feeling of cold dread.
Sorry this is so long and incoherent. I've really messed up :(
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Please can someone offer advice. I hate my job, what should I do?
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LiquoriceWheel · 21/03/2019 13:04
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