Well this is my opinion and how I feel due to several things. Some I will state here.
I work for my main job, set hours contract. Everything was discussed in interview I only wanted part time which I do 28 hours.
When doing my 6 months probation a week ago, the director asked me to increase my hours. I said no, I don’t want more hours. I felt under pressure and said to ask me again around November.
He then asked me why I didn’t want this and what I do which means I cannot and I replied to him ‘I just have thing to do after’
I replied like this because I really don’t see how it is his business what I do.
There are two directors btw, both were there during this meeting, the less nosey one who I get along with And actually interviewed me is fine.
So back to this nosey, My friend, I work with told me how he asked her if I still do my self employment work which she said she doesn’t know.
she knows I do but she also said she doesn’t know why he wanted to know
I am not an open book, I don’t discuss my issues with people. My friend knows a lot about me because I trust her, same with another woman there, but I choose who I open up to
After this he was acting all off with me and has been being rude like not wanting to say bye and stuff to me me. I can’t explain it but his vibe is off.
I am going through depression right now and I was actually signed off work which I didn’t even take because I don’t want to take time off. I don’t know if my depression is making me sensitive to things but I just get a vibe he doesn’t like me.
Someone is leaving soon and I said I cannot attend the drinks but the dinner the day before I can. He then asked me why I cannot attend the drinks on a Friday evening out of work hours but can the dinner in work hours.
Why would I need to disclose my personal business or second job to him? It’s a couple hours extra I work my second job so nothing will change with my pay.
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Director doesn’t like me because I am not open with my personal life
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Bellasorellaa · 18/03/2019 23:08
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