I have a DC who will shortly be starting school. I am a single parent.
I secured a training contract with a large firm through a vac scheme. The training contract commences soon and I need your advice. During my time on the vac scheme (which lead to the offer of a training contract) I did not officially disclose the fact that I had a DC:
i) family talk can be seen as unprofessional and it is irrelevant to my ability to carry out the job. ii) I had cast iron grandparent childcare arranged so that I was able to participate 100% in the scheme to give me the best possible chance. iii) discrimination does exist and I want to be considered as a serious contender.
I did become friendly with some people I met during the vac scheme who I subsequently told, but HR dept etc do not know.
I am unsure of the best way to go about disclosing that I have a DC. As the start date approaches, I am
becoming a bit anxious. Is it unrealistic to hope that there might be some flexibility on doing all nighters/ family friendliness? I will be able to call on grandparent support for working extra late, however they would ideally have notice of this in advance.
My ideal arrangement would be to be able to be able to leave the office at 530/6 and then work on things from home in the evening. Then have it prearranged to work later say 2 days per week? But I realise that this is probably an arrangement suited to individuals that are established in their career.
I know that the role of a trainee is to be on hand whenever willing to do whatever with a cheery smile, and of course I am willing to do that. However, I do have to be realistic with my responsibilities. I don't want to let anybody down: work or DC etc.
I have thought that avoiding corporate seats might be a good idea (which is a shame bc I am very interested in this area) given that the nature of the work demands late nights.
Who should I talk to? HR? Individual seat supervisors? Should I do this before starting or during the initial week/induction meetings? The last thing I want is to seem like I'm shirking responsibility the minute I walk through the door. I can't tell you how delighted and excited I am to have this job and desperately want to handle this as best as possible.
Thank you for reading.
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Orelia · 14/08/2017 17:06
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