I would really like some advice with something that has been on my mind for a long time. I retrained as a teacher around 5 years ago after 8 years in my previous career in a therapy profession allied to medicine. I loved the field I worked in and remain very passionate about it but felt at the time. I would enjoy teaching more. (Spoiler alert: I was wrong I now teach full time but also have my own (very small but relatively busy) private practice in my previous role which I do in my own time (apologies for being vague and not saying exactly what it is. I am trying not to out myself too much as am trying to keep my dilemma quiet at work for now)!
I have spent increasing amounts of time over the last few years thinking about leaving teaching or at least reducing my hours to try to grow my private practice. I love working with children (and feel I am good at it!) but the stress, workload and politics of it all are making it feel like an increasingly thankless task. I am spending longer periods of time frustrated and miserable interspersed with shorter and shorter periods of feeling settled, effective and appreciated. There is a fair bit of demand for private work in my field - I regularly turn work down and have a number of regular, loyal clients now.
I have recently been approached by another organisation to do some private part time work for them in my previous career, which would last at least a year. It is the kind of work I love doing, involving staff training as well as direct therapy work with children. It is also the type of work that I could potentially make a good living from if it went well. I feel I would potentially be much happier working in this way. I have a meeting about it within the next week where I will need to commit to doing it or refuse it.
The main thing stopping me stopping or reducing my teaching hours is financial securityI'm not a saver and while I manage to pay my bills and have a fairly good standard of living, I never have money at the end of the month and have no savings. Private work in my field pays well, and I have been advised by my accountant in the past that I could potentially make more than my full time wages at the moment if I kept busy and managed my business well. I live with my partner and have no mortgage (I contribute to bills and my partner owns the property we live) in although a lot of bills! We have no children although are planning on ttc soon. This may not seem like a very sensible decision given that I am thinking about taking a big financial risk, but I am currently undergoing fertility tests and am also getting on a bit age wise and don't really have the time to put it off. It isn't the best timing to have a career crisis I know, but this has all just happened in quite a short space of time!
Do I take a risk and ask to reduce my teaching hours to part time hours (to possibly 2 or 3 days a week) which would mean I could do both jobs and also have the security of a permanent post with sick pay and maternity if necessary? My boss will not be happy and may refuse (I know that they are perfectly within their rights to do so). Or do I stay in my job until I am more financially secure but potentially miss out on these opportunities in private practice which I may not get again. My partner is supportive and has told me to "be brave!". He sees how hard I work at both roles and how passionate I am about my previous career.
Has anyone left a role and taken a big risk to pursue an alternative career that they had a gut feeling would make them happier? Was it a success? Or would you advise against it? Although I would love to read lots of success stories, the logic, risk averse part of me needs to hear both!! Apologies for the epic and thanks if you are still reading - this has been going round in my head for months and I wanted to explain my dilemma properly!
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bloomingheather · 18/05/2017 01:51
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