So I've been working for my current employer for just over a year and Ive been doing a pretty good job.
Last week we had reviews and my manager said he wants me to be more pushy. I said I'd try to be, but it's not me. I'm a really shy person with low self confidence, and fear making mistakes.
Today he pulled me aside and said he has been ignoring some of my emails because he wants me to chase him for stuff. I really don't understand this. I get that he may want me to be more vocal, but it's really not me to be pushy. The fact that I've been doing a good job should be enough. I'm starting to think he doesn't understand me as a person.
Its probably not helped by the fact that over a year of working there i still don't feel comfortable around him. He's a nice person but he is very sarcastic and takes the P out of a lot of stuff that I like, so I find it hard to warm to him - we literally have nothing in common apart from work.
I don't know what I can do to address the issue. Do I say that I don't feel comfortable being pushy? or try to be more pushy
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mooneus · 29/03/2017 23:31
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