Hi Everyone,
So one of my colleagues is apparently annoyed at something I said and has been moaning about me behind my back. I am 30 and he is 60 and we have always got on really well, I work on a team of 10 and there is a lot of, I hate this word but, banter going backwards and forwards, he is one of the worst for it but everyone can take a joke and we all get on well. The other day I was coming out of a meeting with some of my colleagues and he goes to me "What was that all about?" I replied to him joking and smiling "mind your own business" and he just laughed. I then find out this morning from my manager that he has been moaning to another colleague saying 'who does she think she is, I have been working here for over 30 years and she is telling me to mind my own business'. My manager knows I was joking and was just making me aware of it, saying oh you know what he's like (he does have a reputation as a moaner). He has also been saying other things behind my back like I am the favourite on the team and I am the one who always gets picked to do things. He is still behaving normally with me but I just feel awkward now. Do I just ignore it or say something to him?
Apologies for going on a bit.....
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Spacebound · 21/07/2016 17:08
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