But in a very subtle way. This might be long but please bear with me because I want to tell you everything. I have worked in same pace for about 10 years, about 6 years ago colleague joined and was in the same position as me at work, same role etc but working to support different parts of the business. After a while a temporary promotion was offered, we both went for it and I got it,after that he whole attitude towards me changed and she made it very clear that she thought it should have been her. This temporary post lasted 6 months then I went back to my normal job. Anyways fast forward since then over many years our working relationship has broken down, she clearly has never forgiven me and I find it hard to work alongside her. I could go on forever, but she shows her disapproval of me me, all the time, subtly makes comments to me that are negative, deliberately does not pass information to me about work matters, and when we are on our own is quite nasty to me. This all sounds very low level and it probably is, but it's gone way too far now, I was asked to do something recently when she was away. To amend something in her area, as it was urgent, when she came back, she was obviously cross, and claimed she had left it like that for "a reason" and basically made me feel guilty for something I had been asked to do. Over the last few years I have gone from someone who is confident at work to mistrusting others, second guessing comments and I dread walking into the office so much I get a sick feeling in my stomach. I have brought this all up with my boss several times, but they fail to see what they can do. I love my job and i think I'm good at it, but feel very low on confidence and like I am being driven out.. Thanks for reading x
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Feelingbulliedatwork · 15/07/2015 19:00
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