hi currently divorcing DH for adultery - financial side complicated and he is being extremely controlling. I am employed as company secretary, get payslips and have to pay tax but do not actually do a job - DH set ltd company up on this basis as more tax efficient - i have been advised to apply for tax credits but he is saying there is no job - i do not have a contract of employment although have been under this set up for 8 yrs. I am also a 50% shareholder and so he declares dividends in my name but they have always gone into a joint pot until 6months ago when he is paying them into his personal account. he has told me I have a large tax bill to pay - which he normally took care of - and as i have no funds to pay this will have to take out a loan which Im not sure I can actually get. to make matters worse OW is employed by company - I am being controlled left right & centre by him - every avenue I try & go down is blocked by him saying cant do that - I have said I will speak to Inland revenue but he is saying be careful not to implicate yourself ( I am not a
Director)- I am considering speaking to ACAS - he has previously threatened to set up a new company that I will have nothing to do with when I didnt comply to a previous situation. I know my sol can help but I am running out of money - Im feeling trapped - just hope someone can point me in the right direction - thanks
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advice please - employed in DHs company but telling me not a real job
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greenberet · 05/01/2015 10:32
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