Hi, this may seem like a strange first post but just needed somewhere to vent. I have had the most awful experience with a recruitment agent, whose behaviour in my opinion borders on harassment. I managed to secure a job offer but the role was 2 hrs away from where I live. During the interview process I had said I was willing to relocate as my husband was out of work and we were both looking for work. However, during my final interview he had decided to take a job 20 mins away from where we live. So when my agent called to say I had the job offer I said I would have to discuss with my husband. He was angry about this and demanded I give him an answer the next day. He sent me this email which I thought was pretty bad.
Hi C,
Can I give you a call today to discuss the offer, as HR were expecting an answer today…What I am not happy to do Claire is wait to see if you are offered another position and wait a few days next week, it does not look good to the client and they may withdraw the offer. Please get in contact with me today and discuss what the chances are of you accepting this role and renting initially.
I explained to him what had happened but I really wanted the job and so I asked if I could have more time to decide. He then emailed me telling me to contact the HR manager at the company at home over the weekend. My husband had another job offer near this job so I was really hoping my husband would change his mind and go for the job near this job offer. Anyway after discussion my husband said he didnt want to relocate, so I called the HR manager and apologised and said that my circumstances had changed and that I was really disappointed as I was very grateful for the offer. The HR manager was fine and said he was disappointed as they really liked me.
The Monday the agent rang my mobile 9 times in an hour and half and left two voicemails. I work in a lab and am not allowed to use my phone in the lab. The second was in my opinion absolutely disgusting. He basically said that the way I had behaved was pathetic and that I had lied to him and the company throughout the interview process and that himself and the company were extremely angry with me for wasting their time and money!!
Sorry for the big post but I am just so upset. It has taken me almost 2 years to get myself off the AD's and back to work now to face redundancy less than 2 years later and then to experience this. I can feel myself going backwards.
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chemistc · 16/12/2014 20:58
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