Let's call this person Clare. She's been at the company for 15 years and I've been there for 9 months. She is senior to me but we both report to the same boss. At first, I really appreciated Clare showing me the ropes, but the problem is that she's continued to do this even now I've become competent in my role.
Today she asked me no fewer than four times whether I'd done a routine task when it was completely in hand. I was just waiting for my boss to approve it before I circulated it. I explained this to Clare but she kept asking me about it! She does this very often - every day - asking me about things that are under control and actually have nothing to do with her. She will also interrupt when I am discussing projects with colleagues, telling us where we are wrong. I get great feedback from my boss and the directors so I know I'm doing a good job, but Clare makes me feel incompetent.
I am reluctant to ask her for help more often as the last time I did so, she rolled her eyes at me and said she was too busy. When she found out that I'd gone ahead and completed the work without her, she yelled at me in front of everyone (including our boss). Our boss is good at what she does in many ways but hates conflict so didn't intervene.
Any advice?
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CrystalSkull · 02/04/2014 23:20
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