I am gong through an awful time at the moment, its a long story but the gist of it is my DH has been out of work for the past 18 months, he suffers from OCD and depression, he is in no fit state to work and we are having to sell our home to a housing association as we are unable to pay the bills on my salary alone.
As you can imagine I am very stressed and just not coping with anything, home or work due to everything that is going on. My state of mind will hopefully improve soon once this has all been dealt with but I can't sleep because I am so stressed, I wake up every morning at 3am with panic attacks and I'm very tearful all the time. I spent most of yesterday crying on an off at work and had to hide in the toilets on the train going home as the tears just kept on falling.
To add to my problems my line manager has made it clear to me that he was not happy with both my time keeping (due to a couple trains being cancelled) and my work. I always work over at the end of the day to make up any time if I am late and and even if I am not late I generally stay int he office longer than I am contracted to as I like to finish off what I am doing before I leave the office.
I have tried to tell my line manager about the other issues I am dealing with and that this will (hopefuly) all be resolved in the next few weeks as we started the process in November, my work will (hopefully) soon be back up to standard but he is not interested and very unsympathetic. It probably doesn;t help that everytime I try and talk about it I cry and find it hard to communicate. I am not normally like this.
I managed to get an appointment with my GP this afternoon to see if he will prescribe me something to help deal with the stress but it means I need to leave work 2 hours early today. My line manager told me I could not go and would have to go in my own time, this is the only appointment I could get and I really think I need to see a doctor to try and get some help dealing with everything I am going through. I feel like I am at breaking point as I feel worse daily. The next available appointment is not until Monday and I just don't think I can wait that long to get some help.
I always make up any time that I miss and offered to work an extra 2 hours next week to do this. Can my line manager stop me going to the doctors? Is he being unreasonable.
Sorry about the long post I am upset and my thoughts are very jumbled.
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Need some HR advise to get things into perspective... is my boss being reasonable?
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jemjelly · 20/02/2014 12:58
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