I am 15 weeks pg with dc2. I told my Head of department (am a teacher) after my 12 week scan, and obviously word has got round, which is fine. Yesterday I went to see a member of admin staff about an exam entry. She is not someone go I have discussed my pg with, and she hasn't acknowledged my pregnancy so far. She is also the cover manager. At the end of the conversation, she asked me 'when are you coming back?'. I honestly did not understand what she was talking about first! Then she sort of backtracked and said 'I mean I know you haven't actually gone yet, and you don't have to say just now, but I was just drawing up a contract for your replacement...'. I was quite taken aback. Obviously I know plans need to be made but as far as I am concerned I am still in the early stages. I haven't even thought about leaving yet, let alone returning and the conversation unsettled me.
I am extra sensitive about this as my previous maternity leave was marred by my line manager (who has since left) sending me hostile and emails about my return.
Was she within her rights to ask me this? Or am I just beig over sensitive because of my previous experience?
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louloutheshamed · 27/03/2013 19:27
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