Hi guys, this is my first post on here, i am a single mum of 2, one of each :-) . Right long story, so will try to cut down; When my youngest started school last September i decided it was time to get my career head on and decided to think about becoming a teaching assistant ( i have always wanted to work with children and was studying a diploma in childhood studies when i feel pregnant with my first, unfortunately due to new baby could not complete) I found out about lots of different courses and asked at my local primary (the one my youngest attends) if i could volunteer in the classrooms... i also started working there as a lunch time supervisor. I volunteered last academic yr for 16 hrs per week, doing anything and everything a paid teaching assistant would, but due to my ill health ( Thyroid cancer ) decided not to start a course as the vol hrs plus 5 hrs lts hrs were draining me as it was, but wanted to make a good impression at the school so kept up with my vol hrs, i always made them aware of my hopes of being employed there in a paid role one day and had lots of great feed back from the 2 teachers i helped... i got my hopes up .... Over the summer hols i fell out with a friend and fellow LTS over some judgemental comments she made about be being on benefits, when the children returned to school this sept i asked the head about returning to do my vol hrs and she seemed quite dismissive and i was only offered 6 hrs vol, mainly just filling, hearing readers etc just a couple of hrs classroom work, i spoke with her about this and she assured me i had done nothing wrong, just the rules had changed and that as i wasn't studying to be a TA they could only treat me as a normal parent helper... ok fair enough i thought..... In the meantime i noticed the former friend going in to the heads office on several occassions, the head became off with me, although noting i could really pinpoint, just different to how she treated/spoke to me before?? Then the next thing you know this former friend is being given cover hours when a TA was off sick.... will just add that this lady has had NO classroom experience or done any vol helping, only her lunch time shifts. I was not happy, so made the school aware that i was not happy, i arranged a meeting with the head to discuss my disappointment, she assured me that it was not a reflection on me, that i had done nothing wrong etc, but that a quick decision had to be made and this lady was the first name to be thought of??? Hmmmmm ! Well this week i found out that one of the TA's is taking time off for health reasons so asked the school secretary if she knew if they had cover for this TA, she asked for me and yes they already had sorted it... GUESS WHO do you think had been given it??? i spoke to the headteacher this evening briefly after a PTA meeting ( that i am a member of, but not this other lady) I said i was upset not to have been asked again and said can i reiterate my interest to be contacted when cover work came up and she said that i could but she doesn't invisage any becoming available... What the ?? her tone was not pleasant and she was staring through me like i was worthless.... I don't know what i have done to deserve this or what to do from here? Feeling extremely depressed not helped by the fact that next month my income support switches to JSA and i will have to be actively seeking work.. not easy when you live in a village and don't drive, i had pinned all my hopes on getting a position at the school ( 5 min walk up the rd) when it expands in sept coming, and thought that with all my experience over the past yr and the good feedback from the teachers i would stand a good chance ( i have also just signed up to start a city and guilds level 3 TA diploma and told the head this) but from the recent attitude from the head i am guessing i wont be considered at all :-(((
Chat with other users about all things related to working life on our Work forum.
Work
unfair decision, feeling very depressed
fedupofbeingused · 23/10/2012 21:07
This reply has been deleted
Message deleted by Mumsnet for breaking our Talk Guidelines. Replies may also be deleted.
Don’t want to miss threads like this?
Weekly
Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!
Log in to update your newsletter preferences.
You've subscribed!
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.