First post from a long time lurker here....
DH and I live in East Kent with our 1 yr old DD. Whilst I was on maternity leave it was announced that the company I worked for were closing down in the UK and so all staff would be made redundant. I returned to work in my original FT role when DD was 6 mths old but was only there 4 months before being made redundant (as expected) and put onto 3 months employment seeking leave, which ends in early Nov.
Jobs in this area of the country (in my field of work) are non-existent. I have been looking at FT roles in similar (but not exactly the same) fields of work in London/Surrey (with a 3-4hr round commute) but even they are very scarce. I have had a few interviews, often reaching second stage (or even third stage for one role!) with very positive feedback but no offers. Very stressful.
I have now been offered a very interesting FT job with a very good company in Leicestershire. Good salary, pension, BUPA, bonus etc, and a generous relocation package to boot. However, I also have been contacted by my old boss who works for a local company (20 mins drive) to ask if I was interested in doing some consultancy work for them. All good.
This leaves me with a difficult decision because :-
- Both my family and DH's family live very close to us in Kent. When I was working FT previously my mother looked after DD (paid) as she used to be a nanny. Clearly we have very strong ties to the area.
- The job in Leics is a definite offer of permanent employment with all the benefits (sick, hol, maternity pay etc). The local role is on a consultancy basis so more flexible but also without the security I'm used to. In addition, it's not guaranteed yet as the company are trying to develop a new area of business so it's not confirmed until everything's complete (no time frame but my ex-boss first contacted me 7 weeks ago and we're still not there yet!) so there's a risk it won't actually happen at all.
WWYD? Relocate away from family and friends for a good job with security and prospects? Or decline job, stay in Kent near to family and keep fingers crossed that consultancy work comes to fruition? It's a strange field of work that I'm in and not many people do it on a consultancy basis so without the first, big client (ex-boss's company) I wouldn't even consider it.
Either way I would get my redundancy package from old job and we're not destitute as DH has a decent job, but we wouldn't be able to live how we want (i.e. have savings, pensions etc) if I didn't work. Also I really miss my job and the focus it gave me so I'd like to work.
Any wise words?
Thanks!
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