I am working part-time and have two colleagues, one full time, one part time doing the same role in a college. The full time colleague has better technical knowledge and overall idea about diaries/apointments etc as she is there all week and sees more than we do etc. But we have other strengths...
She likes to make us look incompetent at any opportunity and bosses us about. If you ask her to explain something that wasn't clear she will say 'I sent you an e mail', she sees explaining something face to face as a waste of her time and that you should be able to take new procedures on board just by reading an e mail attachment. (I need to be shown, learn by doing etc)
She is also presenting herself to colleagues as the main one in charge and dominating any discussions.
Bascially we feel like she resents us and does not feel we do enough work.
She talks in an aggressive and condescending manner and it is making work so unpleasant.
I am spending half my time thinking about snide comments she has made to me and it is really affecting my confidence. I feel quite depressed.
Our line manager gets the same condescending treatment really as he is away from the office a lot and quite disorganised and when he tries to ask her about things she will say 'well, if you had read the e mail you would have known'...'yes, I did tell you to do that, but you obviously weren't listening'. She's doing his head in too. He knows he needs to speak to her and has promised to do so but I think he is avoiding it.
Does anyone have any experience of dealing with a colleague like this? I know I need to challenge her in some way as her tone is unacceptable but I just don't know how to do it. She is really starting to affect me, which is not good.
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muttimalzwei · 10/09/2011 09:22
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