I have been manager of my current workplace for 18months and spent 18 months prior to that as deputy in the same place.
I think I have adjusted fairly well. I am friendly with most people but am able to keep enough distance so that I can be objective and also deal with problems in a professional way.
However, whenever I have to deal with a difficult situation (no too often and usaully the same 2 or 3 people) I am a complete wreck. I have to psyche myself up, I feel nervous, I can't concentrate on anything else until I've spoken to them. Why oh why do I find it so hard? I have had good feedback from my senior staff about how I deal with things. My bosses (partnership) are happy with the way I manage. (Have recently had a really good appraisal). Things for the most part run smoothly.
Feedback has also shown that people think I am fair and that I deal with things in a resonable way. Not demanding but also not a push over.
I just don't know why I find this so difficult. It is for instance, speaking to people about lateness, people who are behind with their work without good reason. etc.
Just wondering if anyone else has experienced this. Does it get easier or am I just not cut out for it?
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Feeling lika a crap manager today - any advice about dealing with difficult situations?
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hackingandhewing · 14/07/2011 21:33
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