Just bashing this out quickly as am off to work in a mo - bit of a WWYD?
I'm 26 weeks preg and work in a different branch of the organisation to my line manager - we are specialists who are scattered round in local branches and she is at head office.
In the local office where I work they have a line manager who seems rather keen to boss me around as well - taking unnecessary interest in my annual leave etc that is dealt with by my line manager at head office. He is not technically supposed to be in charge of me at all but is the first line manager for the office I work in.
Yesterday he and some others were shifting desks and cabinets round in my office for a reorganisation. I was working as normal. Someone said jokingly to me 'come on, get lifting' to which I laughed and said aye right. This manager then said 'how many weeks is it you're not supposed to lift for, the first 10 or something?'
I answered 'no, all the way through' and he replied in front of about four other people 'yeah that's what such and such told me as well but I looked it up on the internet and it was a lie'. This wasn't said in a joking way and I was so taken aback I didn't respond. I had a few wary looks from my colleages. It's not only incredibly rude but a load of nonsense.
I'm really not happy about this but what should I do? What's even worse is that I'm starting to suffer with pelvic pain and it hurts me to even get to work, none of his business but pissed me off even more!
Do I
a) get over it
b) speak to my line manager who probably won't do anything
c) speak to his direct boss if I can figure out who that is - very hierarchical organisation so this may be frowned upon but at least would drop him in it
d) speak to him directly, which will let me get my full point across but will mean this aspect of his behaviour is not registered with his bosses or anyone else, i.e. he gets away with it
e) just speak to HR, have no idea what they would do
Oops sorry, I do ramble on.
Will check in the odd time whilst at work!
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JeelyPiece · 15/12/2010 07:51
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