Mil is late 80's but in very good health. Fil died last year but she's coped really well.
We are looking to move and it has been suggested that we buy mil house and build her an annexe to live in.
I'm just not sure. I like mil, she's a kind and generous person, it's more dh. Every suggestion I have on the extension, or anything house related, he shuts me down - every suggestion is how it will affect mil. We have sold and will need to rent somewhere whilst bushing work is being done - family of 4 with pets. I suggested it would make more sense for mil to move in to SIL spare 2 bed flat and we live there to oversee - I'm a disgrace to even think, I'm selfish.
We will be paying for the annexe. I say if we are spending money see should gain extra space and build a downstairs bedroom too - no, mil wants to be upstairs so we will convert/lose a bedroom and bathroom for her - losing a bedroom for my kids and their bathroom (they are teens).
It doesn't feel like it will be my home at all...
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Not sure about annexe plans for MIL
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likely · 07/04/2021 23:08
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