As the title says, mum is fed up with living alone but won't move in with me (no space) and won't go and live with my brother in Hampshire as she cannot bear his wife.
I need advice as to housing cos I'm new to this. I'm renting privately, divorced and live with my 4 children. I also work as a TA and am assisted by Universal Credit.
Am I in a position to search for a bigger house so that my mum can live with me? I'm not her registered carer as my two brothers have no interest. I'd have to apply to do this but not sure what the rules and criterion is.
She's approaching her 77th birthday, has worked all her life since coming to the UK in 1966 and now retired for a few years. In 2019 she had a fall and while at hospital being treated, doctors discovered a tumour at the base of her spine (she'd been battling spinal TB back in the 70's and was cured of it) and she thinks it could have reappeared. Doctors are hopeless even more now as there are restricted appointments at the GPS and hospital. Her pain is being managed by painkillers.
This pain is making her depressed and really wants to move out as her home isn't comfortable (her own property).
What can I do re the housing situation? Not sure what other information I'll need to put here in order here to make myself understood. Happy to provide more info.
Thank you for reading.
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Mum is alone and depressed
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Dilraj68 · 15/02/2021 07:48
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