Hi, my mum is struggling recently and is saying she feels completely fed up, lonely and depressed. I was wondering if anyone has any suggestions for her because I’m a bit lost with what advice to give her. The usual “get out more” is easier said than done really.
She is 61, with 3 sons who she adores but we are all in our late 20s/30s and can be busy with our own lives. I live in London away from home and with a busy job and am often travelling. My two brothers are still in my hometown but have partners. We lost my Dad nearly 10 years which was really devastating and she has never really got over it.
She has friends but she feels like they also have busy lives. Her friends are all grandparents and can be busy looking after the grandchildren, but my mum doesn’t have any.
She has tried a dancing group but thought it was full of creepy men and she has a walking friend but says she’s boring. She is happiest when she’s with one of her sons.
I could text her more, but we chat several times a week. We go on holiday with her, and I go home to see her or she comes to London quite frequently but theres only so much we can do.
Any words of advice or suggestions I can pass on would be greatly appreciated, as its a horrible feeling being far away knowing that she isn’t happy.
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GJ20 · 27/10/2019 00:52
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