DM had two respite stays in a lovely care home last year, before rapidly escalating dementia and falls meant she had to move there permanently at the beginning of November. I had to arrange it in a rush as she was in hospital and awaiting discharge, and I was grateful to the home for finding room for her, as they were almost full.
However, the room they offered was small and poky, about half the size of the rooms they originally offered on the same unit for respite care. Those rooms had TVs, lovely views, plenty of room for DM and I to sit and chat, and room for her folding wheelchair. The new room has none of these advantages. The manager was apologetic when I initially contacted her in a panic about DM's admission in late-October. She said they wouldn't normally allocate that room except in emergencies, and would try to upgrade her ASAP. Since then, nothing.
I raised this last week and the manager said there was still nothing available. But when I visited on Friday two of the 'nicer' rooms were empty. I've been trying over the weekend to establish why DM hadn't been moved to one of them, and have finally got through to the manager, who tells me that they are, in fact, 'already reserved', but DM is next on the list for an upgrade.
Have other Mumsnetters encountered this kind of thing? I feel like I'm being taken for a ride, but obviously don't want to piss the staff off. Do care homes generally keep back the best rooms for respite visitors rather than residents, in the hopes of converting them?
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Allocated room much nicer for respite stay than permanent stay?
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carriemeeber · 14/01/2019 15:39
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