Just wondering.
My dsis and I have always had a robust relationship with our parents. Always encouraged to debate/argue, not have secrets etc. We respect them for themselves, not because they expect us to. Df always great for educating us about the wider world - his interests etc but likes to be the "teacher". Dm was a professional counsellor, quite forward thinking. So great for personal advice. Now they are in their early 80s - heath not too bad.
My dsis has always been a bit more combative with them. I'm, these days, more averse to argument with them.
I just don't know how I should treat them now, really. Is it patronising to avoid arguments at all cost?
Obviously, all situations are different but wondered how others have dealt with this .
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Should you treat elderly parents with kid gloves?
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tobee · 09/01/2019 20:32
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