Has anyone any experience and how to cope?
At the beginning of the year there were a couple of occasions when my mum went somewhere new (both houses) she was convinced she had been there before, I was fairly certain she hadn’t but couldn’t be sure so just said that I hadn’t been so perhaps she had visited with someone else.
Since then these occurrences have increased and now it is everywhere she goes she says she has been there quite recently and is very convincing to the outsider but they just aren’t true - funerals, two lots of flu jabs, birthday meals. Most of the time I can understand where the memories have come from but others make no sense at all.
I don’t argue with her , sometimes I say that I don’t remember her going to x or didn’t we go to y that day instead. It’s just so difficult. I don’t believe she has dementia, she’s just old. Any coping mechanisms would be much appreciated.
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BlueBell50 · 19/12/2018 17:37
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