Hi ,
Basically my grandad has vascular dementia and many other health issues and my Nanna is also under investigation for memory loss at the moment . She also recently had a fall which resulted in a fractured pelvis and so cannot currently care for my grandad as she did previously.
We have had to put my grandad in respite for a week to give my Nanna a bit of a break but I don’t really want this to be a long term soloution.
What I want to do is ultimately combine our family so that my grandparents come and live with me . At the moment my house is simply not big enough and neither is there’s . There would be 7 of us in total in the new house .
I have been looking at 5-6 bedroom houses and houses with annexes as thinking this would give them a sense of some independence and privacy as well as somewhere to go away from my 3 noisy kids if they needed to .
I’m just asking for stories where people have done a similar thing and how did it work? If it worked out at all .
I really don’t think that they are at the point where they need to go into a care home at the moment and I don’t want that for them anyway , but even with the support of district nurses and carers visiting twice a day there has been errors made (my Nanna managing all medication etc) and I just think they need more support .
I really don’t know where to look or what to do . They are not eligible for any financial assistance if that makes any difference.
Sorry if this is waffley. It’s been an emotionally exhausting week .
Thanks in advance for any advice or help .
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Babyiwantabump · 16/03/2018 23:58
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