My dad, heavy drinker, aged 81.
He talks for two hours at a time. Loudly, aggressive, lecturing voice.
Gets aggressive if anyone tries to speak or move away from being the listener. Conversation is not allowed.
Tells anyone who tries to stop the flow they’ve got mental problems
Content is a mish mash of broken up old anecdotes, senseless political rambling (he says Jacob Rees Mogg is left wing destroyer of England), boasting about how rich and posh his social circle is, some near-gibberish. I can understand what he’s saying because he’s told the same stories for 30 years and I recognise them, no idea if others can.
He also insults people. Awful whining, like a toxic toddler. Again, the whining is on a loop.
He’s trading on other people’s default compulsory social skills to behave badly. His behaviour is antisocial and becoming fatally so. He gets angry and nasty if he’s reasoned with gently.
He no longer has a social circle – no longer invited out. What the hell can we do? The doc says he's fine.
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Elderly parents
Does anyone recognise this type of elder behaviour ?
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LanaorAna2 · 21/02/2018 19:17
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