She's 78 and has always shown traits of unstable mental health. This has worsened with age and she's incredibly difficult to spend time with.
Coupled with this is a huge dependency on strong opioids (fentanyl, pregablin, oxycontin) for complex bowels issues. She's a typical revolving door patient and is incredibly difficulty to talk to (delusions of grandeur, exaggerated emotions, hysteria).
She lives alone (widower) and is a typical hoarder. Lovely new home is now smelling, old rotting food, obsession with TV shopping so boxes everywhere, masses of 'stuff' everywhere.
She's difficult, demanding, irrational, won't listen to reason. She also cannot take care of herself - has terrible sleeping patterns, a terrible diet, self medicates her pain killers to the point her eyeballs are rolling.
She's vulnerable and I'm her only contact. I don't know what to do.
I'm seeing her GP to say that things cannot go on as they are. I want some advice as to how to proceed but her GP usually fobs her off with more pain relief. I think she's unstable but don't get the opportunity to yell anyone.
Any advice greatly appreciated.
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CisMyArse · 01/02/2018 15:13
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