My DP is being absolutely amazing and has stayed down there this week. He's back home for a few days and then will be going to stay again. She lives an hour away from us and doesn't drive. Her health is not the best but she is independent and can get out and about.
She loves her house and neighbours and doesn't want to move. Unfortunately all the benefits she was able to claim for caring for FIL will now stop and we're not entirely sure whether she can afford to stay in the house now. She's obviously really scared about the future which I can absolutely understand.
Ideally it would be better if she moved to be nearer to us so at least we could drive her places. Downsizing would be more practical too but perhaps that's a conversation for months or years down the line.
I hate the thought of her on her own tonight feeling scared for the future 😔
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FIL died this week, very worried about MIL
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SleepFreeZone · 09/01/2018 22:34
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