Something has been really playing on my mind as well as DF awful current situation due to his stubbornness.
I am estranged from siblings and he is also estranged from them, one is abroad. My DB is unstable - caused issues at other family funerals, and would be vindictive and spiteful to me and to his DF on learning of his death and if he did come to funeral it would all be about him,. I have two young dc to think about, and it wouldnt be large funeral anyway.Literally probably just me, dh and our dc.
Do I tell DB and disis - knowing they are going to make the situation hell? Is it my responsibility? Just let them find out eventually? Its going to be a bloody nightmare as all my life my siblings have made death and any painful situation so much worse, its their specialty!
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Siblings all estrnaged from DF and me, do you tell them of the death?
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IadoreEfteling · 09/03/2017 10:21
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